Comments on: Dear Anon-O-Box: I Just Don’t Care About Dating Anymore http://geeksdreamgirl.com/2009/07/03/dear-anon-o-box-i-just-dont-care-about-dating-anymore/ Geek's Dream Girl Wed, 08 Feb 2012 03:19:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Chris http://geeksdreamgirl.com/2009/07/03/dear-anon-o-box-i-just-dont-care-about-dating-anymore/#comment-49849 Chris Mon, 06 Jul 2009 05:50:51 +0000 http://geeksdreamgirl.com?p=3042#comment-49849 WOW. Thank you for publishing that. I'm in similar waters. WOW. Thank you for publishing that. I’m in similar waters.

]]> By: Graham http://geeksdreamgirl.com/2009/07/03/dear-anon-o-box-i-just-dont-care-about-dating-anymore/#comment-49620 Graham Fri, 03 Jul 2009 13:53:58 +0000 http://geeksdreamgirl.com?p=3042#comment-49620 Just to add a comment, I've often found that when you're <i>trying</i> to find love, you often end up more miserable than when you started. Love isn't something that can be forced. Trying to establish a relationship for the sake of having a relationship won't fulfill you in the same way, as Meh has obviously found. Follow e's advice. Enjoy life for what it is. If you don't care about finding a relationship, then don't force it. And if love comes down the road later on, so be it, and enjoy it when it does. But by trying to force it, you might end up miserable now, and may even end up missing the chance at actual love because you were trying to force it with someone you didn't love. Good luck, Meh. I hope that, whatever you are looking for in life, you find it. Just to add a comment, I’ve often found that when you’re trying to find love, you often end up more miserable than when you started.

Love isn’t something that can be forced. Trying to establish a relationship for the sake of having a relationship won’t fulfill you in the same way, as Meh has obviously found.

Follow e’s advice. Enjoy life for what it is. If you don’t care about finding a relationship, then don’t force it. And if love comes down the road later on, so be it, and enjoy it when it does.

But by trying to force it, you might end up miserable now, and may even end up missing the chance at actual love because you were trying to force it with someone you didn’t love.

Good luck, Meh. I hope that, whatever you are looking for in life, you find it.

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