Of course it is totally unfair to ask someone to remove part of their life from the world of sunlight. One of the things that moved me towards the path of being mature enough to be married was removing most of the jealousy stress.

So how thorough should one be? Not too, I hope. I bring my wife out to cozy little nooks where I brought past cannodles, and I certainly don’t expect her to throw out the necklace her ex-fiance bought her, since she likes it.

You like you guy for what he is. And part of what makes him right for you is the past that formed him into what he has become.
.-= LordVreeg´s last blog ..edited Transport in Celtricia =-.

As unusual as your experience was, it is impossible to run away from the Ghost of his/her past. Must of us try to block it or run from it; not too many people like to be reminded that before you, he was having sex with somebody else. But getting angry though a natural reaction, we need to understand that getting angry at someone for having lived is as irrational of being angry at the weather.

Since your case was so unique, laugh at it (due time), praise the lord he learned not to date potheads anymore.

Reminds me of the day my two year old came out of the bedroom with a vibrator to his cheek, because it “feels good!” (Thankfully, my mother in law had just left.)
.-= Laura Paulsen´s last blog ..A confession =-.