Acting Like A Gay Guy Helps You Get The Girl

E advises you to make out with your guy friends. JUST KIDDING!

J’s Soapbox: Why The Pick-Up Artist Does More Harm Than Good

Every now and then I tell someone that my job is to help geeks find love.   Often, that’s when they ask me, “What, like the Pick-Up Artist?” What? No! The Pick-Up Artist is a TV series that has had two seasons, thus far, on VH1.  The concept behind the show is that Mystery, a “seduction [...]

Positive Self-Deception or Cocky? It’s a fine line.

There’s a blog that I read partly for humor value and partly for the semi-smart advice it offers. Approach Anxiety is written for men who are anxious around women, specifically “hot” women. (I dunno about you, but “hot” to me becomes more of a function of intelligence and personality the older I get.) Either way, [...]

Avoiding Predatory Behavior & Preventing Disappointment

In my previous post, Online Dating: It’s Good for your Psychoses, I mentioned there was a quote that I wanted to get back to…. so here I am. As a refresher, here is the quote: Sticking to the bigger dating sites, being honest with introductory profiles (“women lie about weight and men about age”) and [...]