First Date Pressure: Don’t Get In Your Own Way

Let’s say you’ve seen someone whose interests seem compatible on an online dating site. You send her an email, and she sends one back! She seems just as interested in you as you are in her, and soon, you’ve arranged to meet. You could be nervous about what she’ll think of you – but why [...]

Free Communication Weekend at Chemistry.com!

If you’re tired of doing all the work of finding your own matches and writing tons of emails and getting no responses, you might want to give Chemistry.com a shot.  They’re the Match.com version of eHarmony. There’s a nifty personality test and then the system sends you compatible matches and holds your hand through the [...]

E’s “New” Venture: Online Dating Profiler, Dating Profile Writing & Coaching for All The Beautiful People of the Internet

You’ve heard me hinting about it on Twitter.  For the lucky few, you’ve heard me hinting about it on Facebook.  For the RPGBloggers, you got a preview of it a couple days ago via our mailing list. But now, I’m ready for the world to see!  Go check out my new digs at OnlineDatingProfiler.com.  (You [...]

OMG, You’re Naked! Or, Online Dating Privacy

People worry about privacy when it comes to  online dating.  This statement counts twice when the person in question has a high profile job. So what do you do when you want love in your life but can’t risk the wrong people getting the wrong idea? As a former high school teacher, I have been [...]

Secret Agent Man: How to Survive Online Dating without a Profile Picture

So you have a high profile job. Or you are shy. Or unphotogenic. Or you’re a spy for the government. Or you’re an undercover cop. Or you feel that online dating is a meat market and a “Real Woman” would choose a future mate based on his profile rather than his picture. Either way, you [...]