Dear Anon-O-Box: These “Nice Guys” Don’t Take No For An Answer

Ever wonder why women don’t write you back to say “No Thanks”? This is why…

Stepping Out from Behind the Screen: When A GM Finally Gets To Be A Player

Have you ever made the switch from GM to player? How do you handle the change? GGG finally gets to sit in the player’s seat, and tells all.

Dear Anon-O-Box: Do I Give These Guys The Time of Day?

“Hey Baby, wanna hook up?” <– Do these guys even deserve a response?

How Would Online Dating Change If You HAD To Write a “No Thanks” Email?

E asks, “If we required daters to be upfront and honest, would it be a major revolution or a major disaster?”

Dear Anon-O-Box: Recently Separated and Being Asked Out Already

Dear Anon-O-Box, Soon after the word got out that my spouse wanted a divorce, I started getting asked out. While I’m flattered (and need to be flattered) right now, the divorce isn’t final yet and I don’t know what’s appropriate. It’s understood that I’m not looking for a new relationship yet, and while I think [...]

Why Do Women Have Online Dating Profiles If They’re Not Going to Reply To Emails?

A common complaint that I’ve heard from men is that they don’t receive reply emails from ladies. “Why do they even HAVE a dating profile if they’re not going to write back?” There’s no one answer to this question, but here are a few that I know are true.

It Was Trash From First Hello: Fix Your Dating Email Subject Lines, Guys!

Still wondering why nobody replies to your online dating emails? You’ve read her profile! You’ve mentioned stuff about her profile in the email! You didn’t cut and paste! You came up with a pretty cool question that she should be dying to answer. But yet, nothing. In fact, she hasn’t even OPENED the email. What’s [...]

First Contact Emails: Don’t Thunder Toward The Castle At Full Speed

“OH MY GOD!  HE’S COMING RIGHT AT ME!!  AAAAAAAAAAA!” This is the thought that you want furthest from the mind of the women you email, right? Too bad your email makes her think that very thought. What?  Really, e? Really, Geek Friends.  Really.

Online Dating Etiquette 101: What If She’s Not Like Her Picture

Let’s imagine together, geek friends… You’ve found this great girl on your favorite dating site.  She’s beautiful, she’s funny, she’s got similar interests. You talk for hours on IMs and then on the phone.  Things are looking pretty good. You set up a date.  As you’re walking towards the coffeehouse you see her.   Or well, [...]

OMG, You’re Naked! Or, Online Dating Privacy

People worry about privacy when it comes to  online dating.  This statement counts twice when the person in question has a high profile job. So what do you do when you want love in your life but can’t risk the wrong people getting the wrong idea? As a former high school teacher, I have been [...]