A geek girl laments that she’s tried everything and still can’t find a guy to date.
When Persistence Isn’t Enough: Steps to Take When You’re Tired of Rejection
11 Nov By 1 Comment
What do you do when you’ve done everything and still suck at online dating?
Dear Anon-O-Box: I Have Better Luck With Adult Dating Sites… and Not For Sex
2 Oct By 7 Comments
New writer, Y, fields her first question about adult dating sites.
Dear Anon-O-Box: Dating Hope for the Handicapped?
4 Sep By 2 Comments
Dear Anon-O-Box, I’m visually impaired, to the point that I can’t drive. I make this plain in my profile. But I’m concerned that my inability to drive is a deal breaker for many women. I assume they don’t want to be a chauffeur, and it limits where I can meet them unless they pick me [...]
The Best Way to Get Great Online Dating Photos If You’re Camera-Shy
26 Aug By 5 Comments
You want to do online dating, but you’ve spent most of your time hiding from cameras. You’re camera-shy. I am too. In fact, that picture is me, avoiding the shutterbug StupidRanger at GenCon 2009. So when you NEED pictures for your online dating profile, but you HATE being in front of a camera, what can [...]
Why The Gold Digger Isn’t Going Away
6 Aug By 7 Comments
You are such awesome readers because you provide me with awesome questions so I don’t have to dream up post ideas myself. One reader asks: One I’ve seen a few times, phrased one way or another, is “I’m looking for someone with a lot of money so I can spend it.” Do these ads ever [...]
Showstopper Online Dating Profiles: Getting People to Notice You
4 Aug By 14 Comments
A lovely reader asked me to write about online dating profiles that are showstoppers. What makes a showstopper? Can everyone have one? Back in the 80s, all you needed to be a showstopper were lasers. Every kid I knew either had a laser background portrait or was pissed off at their parents for not letting [...]
The Dominant Male Uber Pickup Artist’s Guide To Getting Laid Using Online Dating
6 Jul By 15 Comments
You’re psyched about this online dating thing. You’re gonna get LAID, baby! You bought a bunch of ebooks giving you the tools to be a dominant male uber pickup artist extreme, or better yet, you skipped paying this month’s electric bill so you could buy a really expensive course with videos and mp3s and a [...]
Dear Anon-O-Box: It’s Only Kinky The First Time
26 Jun By 3 Comments
Dear Anon-O-Box, How do you suggest someone approach an interest they consider virtually a requirement in a long-term partner, but which are not really appropriate to include in an online dating profile? An example that comes to mind is a strong interest in BDSM. – Kinky Is The Whole Chicken Dear Kinky Chicken, For starters, [...]
Nobody Views My Dating Profile! What Am I Doing Wrong?
24 Jun By 3 Comments
You’ve got your profile filled in and written up. You’ve selected your best pictures. You’re sitting back and waiting… and waiting… and waiting. “Nobody’s writing me!” you whine. “Not only that, nobody’s even VIEWING ME! What am I doing wrong?” Tired of being that guy going to movies alone? Here are a few tips to [...]
