Dating coach Evan Marc Katz hits the nail on the head in this short video.
5 Gosh-Honest Reasons Why Your Dating Life Sucks
22 Mar By 11 Comments
Ready for a slap across the face to bring you back to reality?
When Persistence Isn’t Enough: Steps to Take When You’re Tired of Rejection
11 Nov By 1 Comment
What do you do when you’ve done everything and still suck at online dating?
How Would Online Dating Change If You HAD To Write a “No Thanks” Email?
21 Sep By 18 Comments
E asks, “If we required daters to be upfront and honest, would it be a major revolution or a major disaster?”
Dear Anon-O-Box: Can I Find Love on Twitter?
10 Jul By Leave a Comment
Dear Anon-O-Box, Any advice on starting/escalating something via Twitter? Lots of back and forth but not DMs and we’re in different states. Never thought about it as a possibility, but something feels clicky. – Tweet, Tweet Love or Keyboard Error? Dear Tweet Love, Sounds like you’ve been having a lot of fun in the Twitterverse! [...]
A Letter to E: “Your website, your service, it offends me.”
8 Jul By 17 Comments
I got a very interesting bit of “hate mail” last week. I say “hate” mail because it was more sad than hateful. I wanted to share it and address some of the issues within because I know there may be others who are thinking on the same lines. If you’ve ever wondered: “Why do online [...]
What Las Vegas Can Teach You About Online Dating
12 Jun By Leave a Comment
What is it about Las Vegas that draws us in like moths to a flame? Is it the shiny neon lights? The chance that you might hit the jackpot? The live shows? The MGM lions? The World Series of Poker? The giant cups shaped like guitars? The fact that there’s a wedding chapel on every [...]
J’s Soapbox: Why The Pick-Up Artist Does More Harm Than Good
8 Apr By 19 Comments
Every now and then I tell someone that my job is to help geeks find love. Often, that’s when they ask me, “What, like the Pick-Up Artist?” What? No! The Pick-Up Artist is a TV series that has had two seasons, thus far, on VH1. The concept behind the show is that Mystery, a “seduction [...]
What A Movie Theater Guy Taught Me About Rejection
4 Mar By 4 Comments
It happens to everyone eventually: rejection. We all know what it’s like to be rejected, but I’ve been thinking about the last time I had to do some rejecting of my own. It was not a picnic, but it wasn’t as bad as it could have been, thanks to an awesome geek.
Top 10 Reasons Why She Doesn’t Respond to Your Email
2 Apr By 2 Comments
You’ve followed all of my advice. You spiffed up your profile, you have good pictures posted, you’ve got your Custom Searches made, you’ve been spending 15 Smart Minutes a day reading profiles and writing emails, and what do you have to show for it? Nada. What gives? Here are the Top 10 reasons why she [...]
