Nobody Views My Dating Profile! What Am I Doing Wrong?

You've got your profile filled in and written up.  You've selected your best pictures.  You're sitting back and waiting... and waiting... and waiting. "Nobody's writing me!" you whine.  "Not only that, nobody's even VIEWING ME! What am I doing wrong?" Tired of being that guy going to movies alone?  Here are a few tips to make your profile more clickable. … [Read more...]

Choosing a Good Online Dating Username is Like Writing a Hit Song

What's in a name?  A lot. Other than your default picture, your username is the first thing a potential match sees.  I've tackled usernames in a couple articles previously.   Here's a quick and easy method to choose a username that will be unique and fun. How else do you think Prince came up with a crazy idea like Purple Rain?  Have you ever seen purple rain?  I sure haven't!  Is it a catchy and memorable phrase?  It sure is! … [Read more...]

Top Five Reasons Why Your Dating Profile Gets No Love

5. You have no picture or your photos do not show you in your best light. Let's face it - women are visual creatures, too. We're also cautious. We want to see your eyes and make our irrational judgments about you based on a 200 x 300 pixel space. It is amazing how many 20 and 30-somethings put up pictures of themselves drinking. It's equally amazing how many men post pictures of themselves surrounded by women. (This does not make you "more credible" as a good date, in fact, it does … [Read more...]